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# The Time I Faked A Name and Snuck My Way Into A Fantasy Football League
- URL: https://www.tawnymagazine.com/the-time-i-faked-a-name-and-snuck-my-way-into-a-fantasy-football-league/
- Published: 2026-10-22T18:46:41.000Z
- Updated: 2026-10-22T18:46:41.000Z
- Description: Sunday morning football is back and men across the country are perfecting their Fantasy Football leagues. And so am I, right under my family's nose. Here's how I faked my way to victory.
- Author: Hannah Tolley
- Tags: Fantasy Football, Sports, Sports Culture, Women in Sports

I know it's [officially fall](https://www.tawnymagazine.com/the-best-fall-trips-for-women-who-plan-vacations-around-what-they-get-to-wear/) in my house when I come downstairs on Sunday morning and football is on the TV, a pumpkin candle is burning, and the whole family is together. 

In my household, the stakes get higher with Fantasy Football, a virtual game where you act as a manager of a fictitious team. As your team players do well in real-life games, you get points. Don't let men fool you; they like their whimsy, too. 

I'm an avid football watcher, but I have never received an invite for this beloved pastime. Riddle me that. 

Football has been a space stereotypically reserved for men, but I'm tired of them having all the fun. 

They say if you can't beat them, join them. So that's what I did. 

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Let me set the scene.

I grew up with two brothers and a Dad whose rooting for sports teams is in their DNA. I was the only girl so, when the boys watched football, my Mom and I had a girls' day. I wouldn't trade those memories for the world, but sometimes, I wanted to be a part of the boy's club, too. 

As I got older and went to college, my love for the sport grew even more. So much so, I had major FOMO that I wasn't a part of the little game they get to play. 

It was last year, 2025, when I realized I was tired of not being invited to anything sports-related simply because they assumed I wouldn’t want to participate.

My now-fiancé was telling me that his best friend was coordinating a Fantasy league, and I sarcastically said, "nice invite." Though a joke, deep down I really wanted to see what the thrill of cosplaying a coach was all about. 

My fiancé had said he could ask his friend if I could join, but, me being stubborn, I said no. I didn't want to be *that* girlfriend, the one who has to be a part of everything. (But I did.) I also wanted to be invited because they wanted me there, not because I was someone's significant other. 

I'm ashamed to admit it. I yearned to be a part of this fantasy league. 

So I devised my grand plan: An alias. 

Meet Alex, my fiancé's "co-worker." He weaseled his way into the Fantasy league and was ready to win the Super Bowl. My fiancé was a willing accomplice, keeping my charade up by being the messenger between the league owner and me. 

I took my new persona *very* seriously. For the draft, I printed lists of players who were projected to be top picks, and I had players queued. I created a cheeky team name that made me seem like I was a veteran Fantasy Footballer. I was ready to make my mark. I was coming for the trophy, or whatever the heck you get for winning. 

What started off as a joke took on a whole new form. Suddenly, I was checking my Fantasy team as if my life depended on it. I put on the coach's hat and was benching players left and right. I went from a passive football watcher to a full-blown fan. 

The best part? 

*I was actually winning.* 

I thrived on them complaining when "Alex" was beating them, and I got to giggle in my head. I also felt immense pride that every time someone in the league thinks they were losing to a fellow "bro," they were actually losing to me, Hannah — just a 24-year-old girl who is extremely competitive and loves to put men in their place. 

So imagine my dismay when I missed the playoffs by one loss...it's still a sensitive subject.

I had fully planned on giving up this schtick at the end of the season. I was ready for this grand reveal and to rub it in their face, but I was too invested. Alex, funnily enough, got invited back to the league this year, so I'm back with a vengeance. 

Not to toot my own horn or anything, but I'm currently tied for third. 

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It's fun being mysterious. 

It's fun having a little secret while I watch football with my fiancé and his friends. 

But most of all, it's fun changing the narrative. 

This started off as a joke, and maybe a little pettiness, but now I thoroughly enjoy watching football. I get to bond with my brothers, fiancé, and my Dad. My weekends have new meaning. And it damn sure feels good to win. 

I also feel like I have something to prove, even if it's just on a little game. Women belong in sports spaces, too.

You don't need an alias, you don't need a pity invite, you don't need to scheme your way in just to feel involved. You can take up space. Football, or any sport for that matter, is for everyone.

Having an alter ego is fun and all, but nothing is more fun than succeeding as yourself. 

Alex is retiring after this season. 

**I think I'll just play as Hannah from now on.**